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I am Eliena Oliver

Hi there, I'm Eliena Oliver and I guess this is my story.

I was born to very young parents, my mother was 19 and my father was 21 (i think). I rarely even know my father cause he cheated on my mother shortly after my brother was born when i was 4.

I guess you can describe me as a total tomboy. I try and fit in the crowd at school but I seem to hang out with the good weird ones, we are all kinda like the brothers and sisters gang, that's what our friendship is based on. Even thought none of us is related what so ever.

Im a british girl, i live in a city called Birmingham (Half hour away from Liam Paynes home city). Ive been here all my life, ive never been out of this city by myself im quite an adventurous person but I have my limits. I could mention that I'm 14.. I'm 15 next month at the end of April.

But I'm no ordinary girl from Birmingham, at my age you would of thought that I go out with my friends and go party's including shopping but I rarely get to do that anymore because truth told that I'm a mother myself. And I know how people react like saying 'Oh she's a whore' or 'she probably fucks everyone', well that's not the case really.

Basically i was in a stable relationship for two years, i might as well mention him, the boy was called Sean and he was one of those guys who made you laugh and cheer you up when you felt low. Of course i fell hopelessly in love with him completely. We went out for like a year and i remember we were home alone, he whispered in my ear "Wanna take this to the next level?". Really i thought he ment handjob or something like that but we already done that.

So yeah, i lose my virginity that night and he's parents didn't mind cause we was at home and there was a bed involved instead of up a wall in some park alley way. We did it a few times after losing it to each other, it wasn't a hobby at all it was just his way of showing it towards me meaning love.

Then a month or two later i start getting fat, generally im a skinny person i fit into size 8 or even 6 (depends on the make of jeans) and Sean joticed this as well. So hes mother got me a test and I got pregnant the first time I lost it to him, SO this was a huge shoker on my family and I only just turned 14. I decided to keep the baby and 9 months later i have my baby boy.

He was born a few months ago in January like at the start, me and Sean are still together and we have our boy. If your wondering his name is Ryan-James or RJ as we call him. He is the most wonderful thing happened to me and while i was pregnant with him i became a serious directioner and a Larry shipper (not bromance) so RJ made me love One Direction.

But i know theres tonnes of young girls out there who have been in my shoees before and you havent got the babys father anymore cause he dont want nothing to do with you or your child but the message im giving out there is that...

Girls you are not on your known, there is people out there who can help you and if you need it you should take it.


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Thank you Eliena so much for sharing your story with all of us :)


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If you have started school, what grade are you in and what have been the best and worst moments of going back?


8th because I had a few friends and I wasn't bullied as much but it was still there
esmiestyles esmiestyles
8/26/14
::DISCUSSION TOPIC OF THE DAY::
When I was younger I was afraid of speaking up about the things that worried me or things that had happened to me. I was afraid that people actually didn't care about me. And I thin that that is the scariest thing to people. Not being cared about

I relieve stress by writing, singing, listening to music, cuddling my stuffed animals :)

That_Pizza_Life That_Pizza_Life
5/31/14

::DISCUSSION TOPIC OF THE DAY ANSWER::
I release stress by writing, listing to music(mostly 1D), watch videos of One Direction, Magcon, or random Viners or YouTubers. I release stress by watching or listening to the people I love.

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You can fake a smile but you can't fake feelings.

I love it because I'm always telling people that things are fine and I'm fine and act like I'm not affected by anything but in truth I am. Everyone is sometimes. And that's okay :)