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If you have started school, what grade are you in and what have been the best and worst moments of going back?

8th because I had a few friends and I wasn't bullied as much but it was still there

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When I was younger I was afraid of speaking up about the things that worried me or things that had happened to me. I was afraid that people actually didn't care about me. And I thin that that is the scariest thing to people. Not being cared about

I relieve stress by writing, singing, listening to music, cuddling my stuffed animals :)

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I release stress by writing, listing to music(mostly 1D), watch videos of One Direction, Magcon, or random Viners or YouTubers. I release stress by watching or listening to the people I love.

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Fave quote:
You can fake a smile but you can't fake feelings.

I love it because I'm always telling people that things are fine and I'm fine and act like I'm not affected by anything but in truth I am. Everyone is sometimes. And that's okay :)

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Inspirational Quote: "Only God can judge us. Forget the haters cause somebody loves ya. ~Miley Cyrus."
Why: That is my favorite quote because it shows that no one else's option about you doesn't matter. That no one can judge you but God. Like if anyone hates on you it don't let that bring you down. Because that one judge from that person doesn't matter at all. All that matters is God's judge on you. It shows that if people hate ignore them because God loves you. And that's all that matters.

Insperational Quote: "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter"
Why: T hat is my favorite quote because I have a friend who if I wasn't like her I could be her friend. Like I couldn't like1D, I couldn't, wear makeup get my nails painted , or wear bright clothes. She made me do things that I wouldnt normally do. I got in trouble a lot because if I didn't then u couldn't be her friend. She was my first friend, so I felt really trapped. She us a really mean person too. She started to loose friends when they realized who she really was, sh blamed it all on me. She told me I wasnt good enough. She told me she was my freind,but then she made fun of me. She would tell me I was lucky ti be her friend because then I wouldn't have any because I wasn't worth anyone's time. Then she turned really violent. I found a new group if friends, but I wasn't allowed to be with them, because she didn't like them . Then I saw this quote, and I decided she didn't matter. So now, I am with the other group of friends who like me for me, and I am no longer friend with her.

Favorite Inspirational Quote and Why?



"When writing the story of your life, don't let anyone else hold the pen."

I love this quote because, for most of my life, I let others write who I was, what I would be, and what I was gonna do with my life. I felt like I had to make others happy to be happy. But, I soon learned, this is your life. Not theirs. Yes, your parents may get frustrated with how you use it, but, if it makes you truly happy(Not talking drugs, sex, alcohol, etc.), then you have a right to do what you want with it!

Best memory:
i moved from London to Guernsey when I was six. I started a new school there. The first time someone actually noticed me that day was a girl who shot me a look that said 'you don't belong here'. This really got to me even though I was young. I made it through my next two without being noticed. Then came break, as I didn't know anyone and was somewhat of a 'foreigner' to these people I didn't have any friends so I spent half of my first break time sitting alone on a bench. I was mildly bullied in London and extremely shy, so when a girl came up to me and asked me if I wanted to play with her, I was very nervous. But I'd been brought up to be polite so I said yes. We became really good friends, her name was Ellie. About a week after she asked me if I wanted to be her best friend, of course I said yes because she was my only friend, the only one I trusted. Soon people came to realise there was no Georgia without Ellie or Ellie without Georgia. She was my only friend from year 1 to year 3, but she kept on trying to get me to let people in. So in year four, I befriended some girls called jasmine, libby and Millie. There was another girl in my year called marina, but she hated me for some reason. Eventually jasmine introduced me to her cousin and his friend, they were called Willem and Bill. Year 5, I was still best friends with Ellie but me and Jasmine got closer, so I had two best friend who still mean the world to me.
they both helped me to become more social, confident and open. I'd probably be alone right now without them. I have some amazing, unforgettable memories (mainly stupid stuff I've done)) with them, and I don't regret anything that I've ever done with them two

My best Memory:
Okay so when me and my best friends at the time idk if they still are anymore but anyway. When we went to see this is us. Honestly we were all just crying and one if my friends was staring at the screen trying not to cry.; I also have another one.ok so me and my cousin went to village crossing which is near a place where I live and so we were walking up to people and talking in British accents and asking people like where we are and stuff like that. So ya(:

Discussion topic of the day answer:
My best memory is when I was watching Nickelodeon one day and later on iCarly came on. It was an episode I've never seen. About a minute after it started they mentioned the name One Direction. I've heard it a few times before by my friends but never had the urge to look them up. Finally the 1D boys were on. I instantly knew they were going to be the biggest boy band. They had the look and the British/Irish accent. Then at they end of the episode they sang What Makes You Beautiful. They made me feel beautiful in just that one song. When the episode was over I looked them up. I promised myself that I will become a fan of them and not stop being a fan. That was about two years ago. Still today I'm a loyal directioner and I'm proud to be one.
So that^ is my best memory.

Was there a time felt like I couldn't talk to anyone?

YES!!!!

Most influential person in my life would definetly go to my mom
Cliche', I know.
She's, as the person above said [Connection!!!!] My mom's car broke down A LOT OF TIMES. Which cost her a lot of stress and worry. But, it was soon resolved. Which, as the unanimous person said, there's always a beach at the end. I keep reaching the shore, even though we're always pulled back, we always make it. So, my most inspiring person to me, would definetly be my mom. She's smart, funny, stronger than me, and amazing. And, very soon, she'll graduate college. Her, literally, life long dream is approaching. And I'll be there, as she is given her diploma, I'll sit there, screaming crying, and laughing. Even if it won't be pretty. I love my mom. And I can say, when people say, "Your so much like your mom." I smile with pride, and say "Thank you."

Discussion of the Day Answer:
I have a huge trouble. I don't trust people like I should. I trust a small group, and that's it. Even then, usually I can't just open myself to them. But sometimes, my parents (divorced) get new boyfriends\girlfriends. Meaning I have to let a new person into my life. If its my mom's new boyfriend, I show him the scrapbooks. If he seems genuinely caring, I like him. But, if he seems to not be watching, I know it won't last long. At all. But, if its my Dad's new girlfriend, I watch how she acts around him. If she seems fake, I hate them. If they look real, I know it must be real. But, even the real ones I just can't trust them. Seen too much loss, pain, and grief in my fourteen years.
(I hope that made sense)

@Erin_Elizabeth_Direction
ya, no problem. I'm here anytime :)

@Zaynlove
Thanks. I need that. I've been beating my self black-and-blue(mentally) since then.

@Erin_Elizabeth_Direction
It doesn't matter how big or small the problem is, if a guy doesn't respect your boundries, he 'ain't worth it!!

Eliena, wow. Your story is powerful. That takes serious strength to be able to share something like that. Of course, I haven't been in your shoes, but I will admit that it almost came to it at one point. My ex-boyfriend, who I dated for two years-and four months- kept asking me to kiss him. He begged and begged me But, I'm also only fourteen. I wasn't ready for that type of relationship. I started giving him hugs, then sitting closely next to him while we watched movies, heh.....held his hand.....and then, bam! He starts the "kiss me-kiss me" shabang.. I'd already pushed my boundaries farther than I wanted. So I said, no. But, he kept asking me and asking me.
Let's just say, I've been single for seven months.


My question to, well, anybody, is...was it a good thing I broke up with him?

I can start a support group for girls with bad self-esteem.
I struggled, and still do, with an eating disorder.
So, I've got others back.
Just look for it on forums! Thanks!(Oh, and sent you PART of my story from, like, the beginning of the year) Love you all, girls!
Que Dieu vous bénisse!

Sent you my story xD