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@starship @blankspace1 @MelissaStylesInStyle
I've done posts like these in the pasts and nobody answers!
OKAY anyways! I'm on this weird dating site thing. Thia guy who looks oddly familiar messages me. We start talking and blah blah. It's like 3am. He has insomnia and can't sleep and he says something along the lines of "why can't two people just hang out late at night, talk and watch Netflix?". To which I replied with "exactly!". So after another 20 minutes he asks me to come over. It's like 4am now. I hate driving in general so driving to a strangers house in the middle of the night was a hard no. After I said no he wanted to end the conversation because I think he thought I thought he was creepy. So I looked him up on Facebook and found out he works at a restaurant that I frequent. He was a hot server who brought over my food! I went back and messaged him saying that and he said to call him because "fate". So I did, he then talked me into lying to my mother so that we could hang out. In my head, I had the idea of just HANGING OUT! I throw on clothes and drive to his house. I get there, we hug and then we go to his room. I've done this before with guys I've know so it wasn't a big deal. Friends can cuddle and watch Netflix. 5 minutes in he starts to feel me up. I look at him and he kisses me. THEN he asks if it is okay to just kiss, I thought he was kinda joking. He wasn't. Kissing turned into full on perve. Then he asked if we could have sex for a "literal minute". I don't know how many times I said no then I said yes. A huge mistake but it's whatever, I got laid. It was awkward sex. I don't like to hook up with people I don't know because when I get attached and all the fun stuff. He "pinky promised" that he wouldn't leave me hanging or just desert me. Of course what do you think he did? He goes to the Ryder Cup and gets hammered and ignores me because the last text I sent him was "too hard to reply too!". So I majorly freaked out without him knowing and he texted me this morning, I tried to start a conversation but it didn't work. Now I'm sad and have a headache.
@darkcutie187
Been there done that. Spontaneous meet ups with internet people is a big no on my side. I mean exactly what you didn't want to happen happened. If a guy is worth your time he wouldn't pressure you into meeting or sex. I'd just take this as a reminder next time something similar happens with another guy.
@blankspace1
Oh what a wonderful relationship you have with your Mother! I just listened to More than this - it's one of their old ones where I actually quite like it. Harry's voice is sweet but now I'm listening if I could fly and my heart melts.These boys really don't realise how powerful they are do they? ;)
Xx
@MelissaStylesInStyle
The worst part is that I totally fell for it. I don't have many friends so i thought I'd try and make a new one. He hasn't texted me back today and I just need a yes or no answer because I wasn't looking for a hook up. I'm okay with it if that's all it was.
Question for everyone and anyone: should I text him and get an answer about what it was (a hook up or not) OR should I wait it out and give him a chance to text me first?
@darkcutie187
I would wait it out but then it's easier said than done! I'd want to also know where I stood.. so it's a bloody hard one. Maybe just leave it for a few days? See if he contacts you? It's not fair you should have to put yourself out there so hard to just get an answer.. bloody guys!
@darkcutie187
Honestly, he sounds super sketch. I'd just take it as a hookup and not push it. If he wants to make it happen, he will.
@xRock_Mex @MelissaStylesInStyle
But like ugh he's so hot (look)
he chose me over a bunch of girls
@xRock_Mex
I absolutely adore my mother! When my dad’s not home, we blast 1D and Zayn and we just laugh, sing and dance! I love her and I was so happy when she told me that Stockholm Syndrome was her favourite so I just play it a lot to tease her! She can’t help but sing and dance to it! If I Could Fly makes me cry every single time I listen to it, Harry sounds incredible and the boys’ harmonies in it are out of this world! They are amazing and they touch so many people with their music, that’s why I love them endlessly! xx
@darkcutie187
He may be hot but I think just wait a couple of days. I’ve never had a hook-up before so I don’t know anything about this matter but I’ve been there for my friends when it’s happened to them. Sometimes the boy texts back and sometimes he doesn’t. It’s just the way the ball rolls. He might just see it as a one-night stand and you see it as more than that. Boys are simple-minded when it comes to things like that. But if you like him a lot, I hope he texts you back and you guys can form some kind of relationship xx
I WASN'T EXPECTING PEOPLE TO REPLY SO I GAVE UP ON THIS OMFG FRIENDS
9/29/16