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Need Some Cheering Up :( #breakupblues
@BloojayLove
Boys suck. End of story.
I can try cheer you up! I can even PM you if you'd want something a little more private?
@girlalmighty
And now I am like left wondering if something is wrong with me! Like what about me didn't work out bitch?!? We sure were fine for the better half of two fuckin years!!!!
But a PM would be nice. Ha. I just want to blast him on the internet.
@BloojayLove
My last break up I handled by either smoking a bowl and listening to Death Cab for Cutie or bawling my eyes out and listening to La Dispute. Just remember EVERYONE is replaceable. Your best friend, your boyfriend, Zayn Malik, there will always be someone else to take that spot. And obviously it's not you. If it's been two fucking years and it's taken him that long to say something, he's the one with the issues, not you doll.
And if he did it over TEXT, I'd kind of have to wonder if there's not more going on with him >.> and if there is, then that just means you're better off. No one needs toxic people in their lives.
@BloojayLove
I'm sorry to hear that, dear. Boys are asses, period. There are so many guys out there that are willing to treat you better than how he's treated yiu. But I'm here if you need someone to talk to. :)
@Call_Me_Godot
Yeah. I have been listening to whatever random shit plays from my IPod, and crying. I did really like him...a lot. And he didn't even use the "it's not you, it's me." line. He just flat out said, "YOU aren't working out for me. This 'us' thing isn't for me." Like THE FUCK?!?!? And he started hanging at my apartment while his parents finalize their divorce, so he said he was gonna send some guys down to get his boxes, and he wanted to know if I'd pack his shit up. Xc
@One Direction 1O1
I know there are. He always seemed so genuine and sweet though :'( I sound so bi-polar between messages but that's how I feel. Rage and sadness. *sigh* I would love to chat with you too
@BloojayLove
Don't pack his shit up D:< make him do it since the whole "us" thing isn't for him. Wouldn't YOU packing HIS stuff up basically be "us helping him leave" or whatever? No don't do that. Sorry if I sound like a bitch but that's exactly what I'd tell him >.> "if you want it then come get it yourself"
@Call_Me_Godot
Hell yeah!! If anything I will throw his shit around, but I don't wanna be that crazy ex. Not again anways ;) And should I be home if he comes over? And act like I don't give a damn? Or tell his ass off? Because I don't wanna let any fucking guys into my house.
But I have become that Tumblr girl who scrolls through the break-up posts :( L-A-M-E. I know, snuggling with my cat and my cellphone in my pajamas. I need to get my act together before he gets here....
@BloojayLove
Avoid dumb conflicts that make you the psycho ex lol just be chill but firm. You can be home so then you can tell him you don't feel comfortable with these dudes in your house and when he asks why just tell him it's between you and him not the world. Then just chill out and watch TV while he packs his stuff up. Don't even look at him. Either he'll realise you're capable of recovering and he's fucked up or he won't care and you'll know you didn't need him anyway.
but I know the tumblr thing O.o add some depression posts to it and a little anxiety and you'll have what my PC looked like the first month my last one left XD it's dumb but it's nice knowing someone on the ever so impersonal internet feels the same. I would also recommend some "screamo" or post hardcore bands since its been proven that the screaming helps reduce stress :D
@Call_Me_Godot
HE SAID HE'S COMING OVER WHAT DO I DO?!?!! NOBODY'S ANSWERING THEIR PHONE. IM ABOUT TO THROW UP.
@BloojayLove
Lock yourself in the bathroom O.o or watch a depressing or meaningful movie on TV and just make something up >.>
Just be firm. Even if you start bawling be firm so he knows he's made his choice and you're not taking any crap regardless of the situation and emotional stuff
@BloojayLove
the mood should sink in and fingers crossed you won't cry. if you do, i'd make it as entirely awkward as possible to be honest - make him leave quicker than he intended on staying. i'd even pull the "no guys in here, its my place - you pack your shit yourself or i get rid of it." i did and it at least gave me a sense of control over the situation.
@Call_Me_Godot
@girlalmighty
He left a bit ago. Want the low down? I just sat in front of the tv (watching Dance Academy) and didn't acknowledge him, he has the spare key so I just didn't move from the couch. When he finished collecting his trash he came over and sat down next to me and said he wanted to talk, so I got up and went into the bathroom (where I silently cried for a good half hour), and I came out when I thought he left but he was still on the couch so I told him to get the fuck outta my house. To which he called me a bitch and I just needed to face it or whatever so I threatened to call the cops if he didnt leave so he grabbed my wrists and GET THIS BULLSHIT EVERYBODY, said maybe we could try again in the future and gave me a mother fucking shallow kiss on the cheek so then I broke down crying in front of him and he just walked out the door. WHY THE HELL?!?
So now I am a mess, I can't stop crying and my head is throbbing and I threw up and I don't know what's even gping on with me.....
So, umm, this is embarassing for me to like share (just my own pride), but my boyfriend texted me a few hours ago saying that I wasn't working out for him and he like dumped me. He just told me to delete his number and move on.
Over a fucking TEXT. He couldn't even hit the call button. What an inconsiderate asshole. I can't believe this. It all seems so surreal, like tomorrow he'll be here :'( But it was just out of nowhere.
I don't even know what I did wrong...and my friend won't pick up her phone so this was the next best thing. So like, right now, I am a mascara streaked mess on the kitchen floor trying to drown it out in music. But I'm still hurt. So will my online besties help cheer me?
6/2/15