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Dreams and wishes, page 5
@Mayci Horan
Boys are stupid don't worry I had the same problem I got a crush on one of my guy friends and it lasted like 2 years and he knew that I liked him and he still got like 3 girlfriends and I found out after I moved he liked me its like wow what a way to show it
@warmachinerox1
I don't really know. He has been one of my best friends. My other friends know about it, One of them actually said it in front of him, but I don't think he was listening. He still hangs out with me and stuff, and his gf is one my friends as well. But they never really hang around me when they are together. Sometimes he acts like he doesn't want to rub it in my face. His gf asked HIM out. And I have all my classes with him, and they only have 1 together. AUGHHH! Its just frustrating!!!
Oh, and one more detail, his parents love me. And he told me I was cute. That's all, I'm done bragging.
Not really a dream more of a wish but I wish that one day I can go and meditate with holy people in a country far far away and just be zen.
@Mayci Horan
Really?!? I just want to go somewhere away from the busy bustle of city life and chill, listen to birds singing off of roof tops and watch stars from mountain tops. HAHA?!? Sorta hippy.
Hello everyone! You all seem like lovely people :) I hope I can get to know all of you a little better on here. And I know that lately there aren't a lot of people on this site but do you guys know what the upside to that is? You get to know others a bit better and your comments aren't lost in a sea among other comments.
@Mayci Horan
I can totally relate to your story about a boy hurting you and he doesn't even know it. My main crew is mostly boys and I started getting really close to one of them. We talked all the time and I guess all the signs were there that he liked me. We talked so much that his girlfriend started getting jealous and they later broke up because she said he was "too immature." He is pretty immature at times but I can't help feeling like I was also part of the reason they broke up. I didn't really directly asked him why they did break up because I felt guilty and awkward. Anyway, even after that we continued talking. Soon it was summer and I was leaving on a month long vacation to Mexico to visit family. We texted for the large majority of my time on the road before I told him I was about to run out of signal. He confessed that he had started liking me while he was still with his girlfriend but I couldn't answer because right after his message came in, my signal was gone. Anyway, I didn't have any way to contact him the whole time I was there (no access to internet, phone, etc.). When I came back we resumed talking like normal and I think he thought I hadn't received the message. The whole time I was in Mexico I thought about it. When I mentioned that I had gotten his message, he said, "never mind," and to ignore it. He said he that he only said that because he was "lonely" and "depressed." And I was like "Oh, okay...Cool." But what I was really thinking was if he didn't like me anymore he could have just been honest about it! Or if he didn't want a relationship he could have said that too! It just really hurt because he pretty much used me as emotional support (if he didn't actually like me as he claimed) when I thought we had something going on back there. Anyway, I still see him everyday and we still kept on talking after that. Only more recent events have caused us to not really talk to each other. Mostly because he seems to have no respect for other people anymore and I don't want to be associated with someone like that.
Anyway sorry for that super long rant but I just needed to get it out somewhere and you guys are really nice and understanding people. Hope all of your days were great!
@ourboysRthebest
Boys are stupid idiots(and I say this, in the best way). I have lots of friends that are boys, they are super fun. But boys, they are completly unaware that girls have sensitive feelings. They don't think before they talk. They don't know, that girls take everything seriously, espially if the girl likes him.
@Mayci Horan
I agree completely with everything you said. Sometimes I wish that guys were more like girls but in the overall scheme of things, that wouldn't work out. I guess that what's great about being friends with the opposite gender. It can be a challenge sometimes but if you're able to work through it then it feels all the more rewarding. I do try to keep in mind that sometimes boys don't mean to be insensitive but sometimes it just hurts.
@ourboysRthebest
My exboyfriend completely destroyed my trust in guys. He's pressure me way past my boundaries. And, I can't get it back. For the first...two years....(I know, I know)....he was, my knight in shining armor. But, when it crashed, I kept giving him chances. But, it didn't go so well. So, I learned, there's no such thing as Knight In Shining Armor, even if I keep waiting for him, and, if a guy hurts you emotionally, especially PHYSICALLY, he's not worth it.
"Men are like buses. If you miss this one, another one is bound to come along soon."
-Unknown
@Erin_Elizabeth_Direction
I'm sorry that happened to you, no one should be disrespected or pressured into doing things they don't want to. Sometimes, looking back at my old problems and worries I feel a bit dumb. Most of them have been silly, trivial things that make no difference in the larger scheme of life and I realize that they are nothing compared to those of other people.
@ourboysRthebest
Its part of life. You have to get pushed down, and picked back up.
Tossed back and forth. Trying to reach your "Beach"-Unknown
Its just getting past it, and letting yourself get stronger. And seeing how you can make better decisions in the future.
It sucks. But, its life.
And, well, gotta get past it.
Like, do you think he has a pretty good idea that you like him? Or does he have no clue?
4/24/14