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@pippalove
well now hes asking me if im still going to be his valentine, and im pretty sure im gonna say no
@metomlinson
Whoa.. sorry; I keep forgetting a lot of people on the site don't understand my aussie slang.
What I was meant to say more so along the lines is; don't even bother answering him.
@pippalove
he explained everything, he said that he didnt say any of that to my friend. i asked him if he liked anyone else, he said no, but my friend told me tht he told her tht he was going to ask someone else. thn weni was texting him, i'm guessing that he thought that complementary wpuld make me want him, so he said tht i should hire my expectstions from him since im "smart, pretty, and organized" and hes the opposite. thn i found out tht he's a player.
@pippalove
he is, yet isnt, wen hes a boyfriend or he admits to liking me, he's a jerk, but wen hes a friend, he doesnt treat me tht way, and he stands up for me. thats wat made me like him in the first place.
@metomlinson
again, i've said it before and i'll say it again - boys are frustrating and confusing. has he matured at all?
So, update on the situation. As it turns out, he liked me, but he had just gotten out of a relationship and didn't think he was ready. He told me he got out of the relationship because it was boring and he started realizing that he liked me. In May, he started wanting to be my boyfriend he explained, but then I kinda kicked him in the nuts because he was being horrible, so he thought I didn't like him when I unfortunately did. And still do. So anyway, I got upset because there was this one guys in the group that we have who is gay, we didn't mind that, but he never shut up about his crush and he kept shoving it in our faces that he is gay. I was unhappy because he (the annoying friend) would follow me around and tell me all about the guy he liked. I didn't want to hurt his feelings, so I kept it to myself. Well, the guy I like tried to tell the annoying friend I found him annoying, but I wanted the friend to be happy so I walked away taking the friend with me. After two days of rejecting calls and ignoring him, He apologized in person because that was the only way I would accept his apology. While I was mad at him, one of my friends found out that he liked me, so she gave him the confidence to ask me out. The day after the apology, he took me for a walk around campus. He pulled a rose from his backpack and asked me if I would date him. I told him that I didn't want Valentine's day all over again and he said that he was a jerk and he shouldn't have done what he did, so I accepted the date. him and I are now boyfriend and girlfriend. :-)
Just pay attention to the signals honey. Your friend may have told him or said something to him and that's why he's acting this way but thoughts and feelings can change quickly (like you see) don't be pushy or clingy around him. Just acknowledge his presence and then continue with what you were doing. Don't be mean to him or anything, but don't be..... too available. know what i mean? Let him chase girl. as soon as he sees that he may have potentially lost you he'll realize he's being dumb and come back. Guys like to chase so let them do all the work ;)
Also. I'm the kind of girl that likes to talk a lot and when I'm around my crush i literally can't shut up and then i look REALLY EFFING STUPID. so like when my crush texts me now i'll try to wait 5+ minutes before i respond so i don't appear like i've been watching my phone like a hawk for him to text. if he doesn't respond to YOUR texts right away then don't respond to his right away. Give him a taste of his own medicine. I've also kind of been giving him discrete openings about a possibility of a more personal relationship and he's taken them every time so HE thinks that's he's actually making a move when I was all along. does that make sense? It's working for me so far and this has been going on with me for 2 months. Good luck love!! I hope it all works out!! :)
oh wow sorry I didn't read any of the conversation besides the first few things :/ but maybe hopefully the things I said will help you in the future? :( I'm sorry honey that really sucks. Boys are lame....
WHO NEEDS A MAN WHEN YOU GOT 1D JUSSAYIN!!! <3 ;)
@JoseyWhite
Lol amen to that last note! Lol and omg, I thought I was the only one who did that! I babble.. like heavily lol also, I figure it wouldn't hurt to put my situation in...?
Well, my best friend of almost five years and I dated for a few weeks in about sixth grade.. now I'm about to be a Junior and honestly, I only broke up with him because I started to really like him and that scared me. We've been talking on and off and our relationship never changes, even when we dated. He's the type.. to act like my boyfriend when guys I don't like try to talk to me. He makes me laugh and he knows basically everything about me.
At the moment he has a girlfriend that's a senior but he still flirts with me a little and for some reason, I always flirt back. Then, I see him with his girlfriend and I feel guilty. But qlong the way, I kind of fell in love with him and now, my parents are talking about moving to Florida and I live in Indiana so thats a long way away.. his sister and I are good friends and she said that I should tell him how I feel while I have the chance so I did and it wasnt anything
@metomlinson
Men are strange creatures. Not that I can talk; I mean women can be just as bad but ughh.. I still feel like you should get some kind of revenge on him.
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