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Anyone wanna help with dating advice??
I have no idea why but this thing keeps messing up haha. But during the summer I had a thing with this guy it was nothing to serious but now things are getting complicated. I am a grade above him and I feel we are at two different points in our lives and it just makes everything difficult. He is deeply in love with me and he is really sweet I just don't know what to do HELP please!!!
@Takemehome
If you feel you're at different points in your life simply tell him - you'd be surprised how many guys take well to honesty.
Do you like him?
@rebel.
I have told him and he says he does understand but I see him and it's like I just want to talk to him. I asked if we could be friends but he basically said he didn't want me if I wouldn't be his. He couldn't handle having me any other way. I just don't know anymore and then my parents are so strict to.
@rebel.
I have told him and he says he does understand but I see him and it's like I just want to talk to him. I asked if we could be friends but he basically said he didn't want me if I wouldn't be his. He couldn't handle having me any other way. I just don't know anymore and then my parents are so strict to.
@Takemehome
Cutting in. He seems a little flustered and posessive. If youre wanting to pursue this make sure those are qualities you don't mind having in a guy.
Personally speaking, you have your whole life ahead of you - if your parents are going o be iffy about it and you're not 100% sure why not just wait? Something perfect will come along xo
@theodora
You have a point. But he's not really possessive he's only flustered because I can't make up my mind about what I want. I just want to be friends to see if there could be something besides just a crush you know? I just don't want to get hurt again last year I messed with a guy that only wanted me for sex because I'm practically the only virgin in my school and yet he still didn't get what he wanted so he lead me on until he found someone who would give him what he wanted. I was left all alone and felt so stupid I never want to feel like that again because I actually fell for him. I don't want it to be that way with him.
@Takemehome
I totally understand. Have you laid it out to him like that? The way you typed it there?
I'm sure the two of you will come to some kind of mutual agreement on how the relationship/friendship/companionship works out. That other guy sucks big time. If I knew him I'd punch him in the face for you. Some people are just dicks :/
@theodora
Haha I apreciate the thought and yea I've mentioned being friends with the guy I'm having problems with but he doesn't want it. Like last night I tried snapchatting him and he was snappy because I asked him what was on his mind because he seemed frustrated and he got mad because he said I was on his mind and he didn't want to think of the predicament we are in.
@theodora
Haha I apreciate the thought and yea I've mentioned being friends with the guy I'm having problems with but he doesn't want it. Like last night I tried snapchatting him and he was snappy because I asked him what was on his mind because he seemed frustrated and he got mad because he said I was on his mind and he didn't want to think of the predicament we are in.
@theodora
Haha I apreciate the thought and yea I've mentioned being friends with the guy I'm having problems with but he doesn't want it. Like last night I tried snapchatting him and he was snappy because I asked him what was on his mind because he seemed frustrated and he got mad because he said I was on his mind and he didn't want to think of the predicament we are in.
@Takemehome
I don't want to sound negative but if he's being like this now, I can't imagine how he'd be like if you were in a relationship with him. I'm only saying this because it sounds similar to a situation I was in and I was lucky enough to get the hell out of it when I had the chance. Re-read over what you typed and tell me if you think there's something off about it or not?
No one on this site can make decisions for you - and trust me, with all the drama's on here I seriously want the best for everyone xo @rebel. would agree. I've saved her ass more times than it was probably necessary.
@theodora
Ur right lately I've been thinking "is it all worth it?" And I feel in a sense it is but then it isn't. I guess I just feel kind of obligated to care for him because he feels so strongly towards me even though I shouldn't let that change my decision. But honestly sometimes I feel like I just want to be with him. Majority of the time I don't feel that way though. So idk.
@theodora
Ur right lately I've been thinking "is it all worth it?" And I feel in a sense it is but then it isn't. I guess I just feel kind of obligated to care for him because he feels so strongly towards me even though I shouldn't let that change my decision. But honestly sometimes I feel like I just want to be with him. Majority of the time I don't feel that way though. So idk.
@Takemehome
There's no need for you to feel obligated.
If you've just said a majority of the time you don't feel 'that' way, then you've kind of made your mind up and are just looking for reassurance it seems? Sorry, I'm a psychology student so I find this utterly facinating. Don't mind me :)
Hey Im having trouble with this guy and I don't know what do!! Please help!!!
9/3/15