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@dance2themusic
Everyone on this earth is beautiful! Don't ever think that you're not. I have a similar thing; I'm 5'10" and I think a little more on the heavy side compared to my friends who are much sorter and look sleaker.
It's all about natural body shape and feeling in love with yourself. I know that sounds really blasé and stupid, but trust me. It works. For one; stop stepping on that scale, it's a horrible, horrible device which pushes the media's representation and ideology of what 'beauty' should be.
If you feel the want to exercise to feel better (endorphins releasing is a natural high) do something like dance (as if no ones watching), skip (childhood exercises are the best) or perhaps even pilates (check out this link).
But; no.. trust me - you are beautiful and gorgeous and strong just the way you are. Don't let anyone or yourself tell you different. x
@punkrockshow
Thank you ! Yesterday I went to the mall and this lady is like "Aww your so pretty " but I thought it was a lie .
@dance2themusic
Strangers never tell lies. Trust me; it's like virtually impossible because they hardly know you.
I know what you mean and how you feel though; I've always been the ugly-ducking of the family so when a compliment gets shot by it's like *eye roll* YEAHHH RIGHHHTT!
But yeah, seriously - as cliche as it sounds, you just have to learn to love yourself. You'll have your up days and your down days but overall - as long as you're happy it'll be worth it.
@dance2themusic
NO NO NO! Don't cry. Well, no -- cry if you have to.
But seriously *and I'll use a Daria -tv quote here*
"When you bounce from the inside, everyone can see if on the outside; okay people... bounce with me."
But seriously; chikka dee, you're awesome. No different.
@punkrockshow
Ha !!!!'
well girl guess what your stuck with me now cause your my new guidance counselor
@dance2themusic
remember that weight is just a number and numbers don't define us. Take it from someone who learned it the hard way. Remember that being yourself will ultimately shine through. If someone ever judges you for your weight their not worth your time your better then that. Scales are evil things they try to define you by a number instead of who you actually are. If you really want to do something try exercising but if you do throw your scale out the window muscle makes you look good but weighs a lot (I gained 15 pounds by exercise I was not happy)
And next time someone tells you you are beautiful believe them in fact let me tell you YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! I don't even know what you look like but every girl is beautiful and trust me it may be hard to believe at times but you are. I know its something I struggled with for past trauma reasons but its something that you should believe. So next time someone calls you pretty or beautiful instead of just smiling and mumbling thank you know in your heart that it is true once you accept who you are your view of the world changes. There will still be things you don't like about yourself but you will start being comfortable in who you are instead of who everyone wants you to be
They said it all.
But, I will say.
I thought the same thing. And it led to an eating disorder.
Sound like a good idea?
Haha,
NOPE
It ruins you. And, leads to future health problems.
But, listen to them. They took the words out of my mouth.
Don't worry about it hun. I'm quite short. 5'2 but my weight is waaay over. And although many don't assume i weigh so much. I do, and it's horrible! Having to deal with the cold hard numbers. I workout every day, and i try and squeeze in healthy diets, to make sure i'm eating proper food, and nutrition. You don't necessarily have to lose weight. Just become healthier. You'll feel better about yourself knowing you're perfectly fine with your body. I've had plenty of disorders where i would eat, and throw up, or not eat at all. I would always find an excuse. But in truth, there isn't any. You are you, and changing yourself will only elongate your search for your true self. When you're comfortable with yourself, you're comfortable with the world around you.
@dance2themusic listen to this girl ---> @dontjockmystyles ; she's a wealth of knowledge and level headedness.
@dance2themusic
Everyone has insecurities. My friends tell me I have the perfect body type because I'm short and only weigh 120 but I don't like my legs, I have no hips, and I don't think I'm very pretty but I use all that energy and focus on my positive traits. Who cares if you're not tiny? Big is beautiful girl! Everyone in this world was not meant to be 115 so whenever you feel "ugly", remember that in someone's eyes, you're perfect.
This girl on the bus is like "I hate the bus"
"just walk" said this guy "espicially you lesly you need it "
bitch.
@Erin_Elizabeth_Direction
Ok I'll listen . I actually found out some important people also had problems with aperiance
Tyler oakley and even shane Dawson
Dear Directioner sisters ,
Im so insecure I feel fat when I step on my scale . My parents say it's because I'm tall . I don't believe them . What should I do ? Ugly is how I would describe myself .
4/9/14