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Bad Self-Esteemed Girls Support Group
Awe i love this, would love to be able to talk to other girls as well. From experience, if any of you need me, I'm always here. ALWAYS. So how's your life ?
This makes me uncomfortable but I figure better out than in. Are you making this a self esteem recovery group for everything or just eating disorders?
I hope for everything, i've only had a brief stage in life where i couldn't eat anything for months, but it died down. I've struggled with other self esteem issues though, so i hope it isn't just based on that. Because it'd be a great go to forum if girls ever felt down, or depressed.
@Erin_Elizabeth_Direction
Don't worry I've been there and still here I am..
I have an eating disorder and constantly as you said you pretty much starve but wanna lose those kilos (Australian wise) it's so bad and yeah.. but I was wondering if you could help me out with something..
so i'm one of those girls who gets in with the type of guys your parents say don't go near and today my best friend Jack was defending me cause Bailey an ex of mine was beating me and considering im 16 and he's 17, Jack came and defended me and then sorry if this upsets any of you in anyway im sorry, Bailey smashed Jack's head into bricks and now Jack is in a coma and they don't know if he'll wake up and people keep telling me that he'll be okay when I know he's not and right now because I stopped cutting.. I really feel the need to and I really don't want to it's the fact it's my fault..
what should I do?
sorry for the long comment..
~Livvie~
@pippalove
Hey, its not a recovery group. Its just a support group. And its about anything. I know, I didn't make it look like it was, but its for anything. And, if your uncomfortable,you can just read stories. You don't have to make yourself uncomfortable. If you want to just read, that is a-okay. But, if you ever want to talk to anyone privately, just let me know and we'll message each other. Sound good?
@Livvie_Bear
(Hey, its alright if you have a long comment. Write-well-type away!)
Livve, there's only one thing you can do:
Pray.
God said we will go through trails, but, if we call to Him, He'll answer. He loves you. God never promised an easy life. He promised we'd face conflict, tragedy, and all the other bad things in our lives. But, we must call to Him. He's the answer.
I know you might not be big on prayer, (Or you might be) But, if we do, God will be there. He's listening. And wants you to call upon Him.
Agreeing with Erin, you should pray, onto only for your friend Jack, (and bailey ) but yourself too. Sometimes you need strength. On another note, you shouldn't blame yourself for what happened. Bailey your ex should have never laid a hand on you. (Let along think about it) Your friend Jack was raised right, and defended you. NOT because of your age, but because you're a girl, and you don't let girls get beat up by boys, esp their ex's. Bailey should be charged with some kind of assault, because it was uncallled for, and your friend is in a coma because of BAILEY not you. I pray that your friend recovers quickly, and you both enjoy plenty more memories.
@Livvie_Bear
@Erin_Elizabeth_Direction
@dontjockmystyles
Thank you I guess really all we can do is pray and I defiantly hope there are more memories to come <3
xx
~Livvie~
@Livvie_Bear
I'm seeing this on a completely different level. I don't believe that religion helps anyone in any shape or form and that people often run to it to grasp at things when they feel they have nothing else to turn to. Pray if you wish, but remember that medical sciences have improved immensely and as long as Jack is receiving treatment he'll come out stronger than ever.
Also; don't beat yourself up about something you couldn't help or change. The world works in strange ways and you had no control over what was going to happen/ed.
Hey :/
umm so here I am in the hospital crying because Jack just died, so i'm not going to be updating for awhile
~Livvie~
Alright... Well... I'm trying to get over an eating disorder. It makes me feel so uncomfortable and I have gotten used to not eating so much that I'm almost never hungry and whenever I do eat, I'll eat like 3 bites and then feel sick. I want to eat more but at the same time, I feel that if I do eat, I'm making myself fat and then I feel really guilty and... Ya know... One thing leads to another and... Err...
Any advice, or tips?
For a decent amount of time, i had a eating disorder. I would eat, and it would never sit. One thing lead to another i would end up puking out. Only certain things i would eat would stay, and it was quite hard trying to regain my old eating habits. It was even hard to eat in front of my friends without running to the bathroom. It would never sit, but now i'm fine. I would try and eat thing that wouldn't upset my stomach, and force myself to take a least one or two more bites. Try feeding yourself a bite more, and eat a few times a day. Even if it's one bite, you get accustomed to the new food. It can't just magically change, but it's a better start If you ever need me, just message me, and i can help with whatever.
Okay, bad self esteem?
I've been there.
Girls Who Had or Have An Eating Disorder.
I know how it feels.The constant pain of being so hungry, the urge of wanting to drop that next ten pounds, the nervousness of stepping on the scale, adding an extra zero at the end so you have an excuse to drop even more pounds, not ever being satisfied with how you look.
Yeah. I've been there. I want to hear your stories. How you recovered, how you fell into it, still struggling(don't worry, I am too) or just want advice. I'm here!
So, you;ve got a story? Let me know what they are! You need advice? I have an answer-I say as I pull out the Bible. Just want to talk to girls who get it? Go ahead! Or just read others stories. I'm here. I'm holding my hand out.
So, grab it.
3/27/14