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Anyone just wanna talk? Or complain? Or just eat chocolate and cry? I'm here to talk!, page 3
I believe in writing your feelings out, Or typing. It relieve a lot of stress you may not want others to know
@Erin_Elizabeth_Direction
It's just, my crush. He told me he liked me. Than the most popular girl in school asked him out and he said yes. I am afraid to talk to him about it. Everything is awkward between us now. It doesn't feel too good.
@Mayci Horan
If he wants another girl, he ain't worth it. I know this may not be the answer you want, but its the best one I can tell you. Especially if its the most popular girl in school. He's probably dating her for popularity and if a guy is dating a girl just for that, he's not the guy you should be moping about. It may be one of the hardest things to do, getting over him, but sometimes, it works out for the best. Your young, and you have your whole life in front of you. Don't let it go to waste just because of some boy. I understand. The whole "I like you" but dates another girl dilemma. If you show him that you've moved on, he'll realize what he's missed. Putting pressure on him. Now, if he comes crawling back, don't fall to your knees and be like "YES!" State your ground! Your a woman, and you need to be treated that way! If he keep fighting for you, no matter the cost, then you know he's a man. But, for now, stand your ground, and move on. If it helps, spend a day moping(Preferably a weekend day) Eat Ben and Jerry's, watch sad movies, cry to your teddy bear. But, the next day. You've got to put a real, no fakes, got it?, smile on your face, and go back that Monday more confident than ever. It will show that your strong, independent, and definetly a woman worth fighting for. Another man will come along, I promise, dear. Men are like buses. You miss one, another one will come along eventually. But, for now, enjoy being single! Being single makes you stronger, and you can spend that time seeing who you are. So, when another man comes, you won't be confused of what you want, you'll know. You'll know your boundary lines, what you want in a man, and who you want to be. But, always realize: You can't change a man. If a man is pushing you, or making you feel uncomfortable, or breaks your heart and say he'll change, most likely-hint, I said most likely-he won't. Some do clean up their, but they don't necessarily change who they are. But, always remember, be you. Never let a man change you.
Just had the sweetest 48 hours in my life and now people are messaging me to kill myself :/ great. Just what the doctor ordered :'(
@Erin_Elizabeth_Direction
You're right. I shouldn't be worring about boys anyway. I'm only 14 right? Its so hard to get over him though. He's just so freaking adorable! He's blonde, blue eyes, and his face is a mess of freckles. I can't get that face outa my mind! AUGH!!!
@Mayci Horan
I liked a guy in my grade. Still do. He's athletic, brown hair, most amazing laugh and smile, and loves to call me r-in. But, he likes popular girls. I'm nowhere near it. So, that message actually, and honestly, helped me too. And, hey, I'm fourteen too! :D Funny, right? But, once you get passed him, you'll be wondering why you wanted a relationship in the first place!
@pippalove
And those people are idiots. They are just insecure people who want others to feel the same. If you need anyone to talk to, message me. OR if you want, add me on Facebook. And we can talk(When I'm not at school) But, don't listen to them. Please don't listen to them. Your kind, sweet, and one of the most amazing people I've met on here. I don't just say that. I have to mean it to say it. Always remember, people who bully others, are dealing with a secret storm inside. And wants other to feel the same.
@Erin_Elizabeth_Direction
The funny thing is, i am kinda friends with his gf. And they are pretty cute together. She knows about my crush, and she is really understanding. The popular people at my school really aren't so bad. You just have to get them to laugh, and poof, they love you. Anyway, she is nice about it, even when she should hate my guts! Lol!
@pippalove
OMG girly you need to ignore them I've read your stories they honestly give me nightmares so thank you for that lol. But ya your a great writer and don't let people bring you down it's to late for me tho lol
@Macy loves harreh
You're welcome? Ha, sorry I don't take positiveness around this place very well. Just a bad habit of mine. Thank you though; this has def worked in cheering me up a little. Too late for you? What do you mean?
Oh nothing I really don't like to talk about myself lol sorry I'm a bit awkward I usually just leave hints about myself in my stories and I suck at writing lol and for real tho midnight calling I think it was called made me shit myself!!!
@pippalove
@Macy loves harreh
Yeah I loved writing that. So annoyed when I ended it :( Haha. Glad it gave you that effect though, it was what I was going for. No need to be awkward. I wish I had the guts to do that.
OMG YOU PURPOSEFULLY MADE ME POOP MYSELF?! Oh dear that's strange haha ! But really I'm just awkward like its not in these situations it's just from bad experiences cause let me tell you something growing up I was always the girl with the most issues and the one called fat yet she was under weight sort of thing so I guess I'm not used to people talking to me nicely so it made me... Awkward ? Idk if that made sense lol
@pippalove
@Macy loves harreh
Totally made sense & I know where you're coming from. All this torment is having an effect on my psyche.
@Macy loves harreh
I don't have popular stories either love! I'm sure if you wrote more you'd have a few :)
@Mayci Horan
Wow. I want to be at your school! Lol, just kidding. My school is pretty good. I'm not bullied much anymore, but I'm not anywhere near popular. But, if she's okay with it, that's awesome! But, don't try to ruin the relationship if they're as cute as you say. It'll be hard, someday's you'll want to cry, but, like I said, men are buses. You miss the first one, another one is gonna come along soon.
@Mayci Horan
Chocolate does sound amazing. But, not for sad reasons for me. But, enough of me.
You alright? Need anybody to talk to? Sometimes, that's the best remedy. Well, other than chocolate. Chocolate is ALWAYS the best remedy. Especially if you share it.
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