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Boy Advice.... -_-
@pippalove
Okay so I'm graduating this year and the guy I like is a year younger than me so I can't decide if I should just man up and tell him or not start anything because I'll be leaving...
@JoseyWhite
Tell him; I mean, it can work in two ways. The first he reciprocates and you two start something and second; he declines and you're leaving anyway so things won't get awkward.
@JoseyWhite
Ouch, okay. Um.. have you gotten any clues from him or friends or alike that have given the hint that he possibly likes you?
@pippalove
I just dont think it's worth it you know? I dont want him to say no and then it get super awkward...
If it's meant to be he would say yes if it's not he might not. But you shouldn't just not say anything. I mean after you could say you were joking or something. Either way, you shouldn't just let this go, if there's something there, maybe he can feel it too! :D xx
@JoseyWhite
I know what you mean, but trust me - it's better to be awkward than not to have asked and figured it out later that there was something. @Frogalaxy has the right idea :)
@JoseyWhite
I kind of butted in, hope you don't mind haha but I just graduated last summer and I had the same situation. I liked a guy who was a year younger than me. I never told him, and I kind of wished I did. For a while it seemed like he liked me. He held my hand a few times, we talked every day, he would want me to come visit him at work, stuff like that. I never told him how I felt, and nothing ever happened. To be honest, I really kind of wish I did tell him.
So my advice is to tell him! Think about it, too, if he doesn't like you back, there won't really be too much awkwardness in the halls. After you graduate, if things go sour, you don't have to worry about going to school with him haha but that's just IF things don't go good, but I doubt that :) I bet they will turn out awesome! I think you should just tell him how you feel, take what you want haha I was always to shy to say anything to anyone about stuff like that, and I look back and wish I was more assertive and told people how I felt :)
@JoseyWhite
I say just tell him you need to tell him something and you just want to say so he knows and you don't need to hide it anymore
@JoseyWhite
You could just say something like 'there's this guy..... Etc' but all the while dropping hints that it's him, and if he gets it he might reply in the same way or just tell you he does/doesn't like you.
if that doesn't work just be straight forward with him, remember if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Or maybe the expression 'if you love someone set them free, if they love you, they'll come back' or not. Idk. Anywho just tell him is my advice! Xxx
@JoseyWhite
Yeah it's going to be scary, but once it's all out there you will feel better. You won't have to hide it anymore which can be stressful. What can be more stressful is not knowing how he feels, and if you tell him he will most likely tell you and then you won't fret over what he is thinking
@MidnightMemory
okay so today I was helping my group of friends with a few harmonies that they were singing for a song for a show...not the point...anyway so he was there and all 5 of us were in a tiny practice room together and he barely even looked at me :( If it's obvious that he doesnt like me is it even worth telling him when I'm pretty sure I know the answer?
@JoseyWhite
Well, sometimes guys are extremely stupid. It's true, sometimes I wonder why I like guys so much because they are such a pain, but I can't help it :) haha well if you are unsure I would say wait a few days and if he seems very reserved and distant then if you do, just find the right time. For all you know he could have been having a bad day, been tired, or something. I say just see how it all goes tomorrow :)
Anyone wanna help a girl out and give me some guy advice?
2/22/14