How Sweet The Taste

To all you boys and girls that thinks it's funny to pick on people and make fun of them and make them feel worthless, that's called bullying. You are a bully and you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Making someone feel worthless and unhappy with themselves just to make yourself look better, is pathetic. To make someone feel so bad about themselves that they self harm and hurt their own bodies to take away the emotional pain and stress you put on them. Laying your hands on another person in a violent way, using your words to lower self esteem just to boost up your own is wrong. You say "oh, I'm against bullying" but yet you bully somebody on a daily basis. Guys, torturing a kid because he's "nerdy" or just because you don't like him is bullying. Girls, just because she's just a pretty or smart or as popular as you are is no reason so start rumors about other ladies. Saying bad, untrue things about someone else hurts. I know this, trust me, I've been under attack. Making someone feel so bad about their bodies, about the way they look to the point to where they would rather have scars to take away the pain you've caused them, you should be just ashamed of yourself. You're pathetic. Making someone feel like they need to cut and hurt themselves is bad but even worse when they contemplate ending it all. The mean voices in their heads that only puts them down because of the things you said about them. To make someone feel like they have to end their life because you are so mean, so rude and just hateful towards them is horrible. One of my best friends admitted to thinking about suicide last summer in front of our whole youth group. I never thought she was even being bullied by the way she acted. When she was with us, she was happy. She talked and laughed and seemed like everything was fine. When she told us everything, not one person in the room was not crying. She's so loved and cherished by so many people, I never thought someone would have the nerve to say something bad towards her. It made me cry at the things people were calling her. "Fat" "ugly" "Stupid" were just some of the things people were saying. It got to the point tot where she started starving herself to lose weight. She was even being bullied because she was a huge Directioner, for liking "five f**gots"…… Who picks on someone just because they have a different taste in music???!!! People who do that are heartless and just plain evil. What have any of the people you bully done to you? Oh, she took your baby doll in pre-k? Yeah, that's a legit reason to call her a whore. Oh, your girlfriend dumped you for him? That's definitely a reason to call him a worthless POS. note the sarcasm It's silly. People started bullying me in 7th grade. I'm not going to name anybody but these girls were horrible to me. "Bitch" "slut" "whore", these names followed me around school along with nasty looks and people shouldering me in the halls. All because one girl didn't like me. I didn't do anything to her but apparently she saw me as a threat. That's on of the reasons why I moved to Florida for my 8th grade year but nothing really changed. Over that summer, I gained weight. I wasn't fat but I wasn't exactly the size I am now. When I got there, a few of the guys found me attractive and was nice to me, showing me around school and helping me when I needed it. Naturally, I made a few friends that stuck by me but I had unintentionally earn more haters than anything. I was called fat and ugly and there was even a few rumors going around that I had already slept with someone my first week there, then there was one going around that I was lesbian/ Bisexual. Girls avoided me and guys tried to get with me because they believed all the rumors about me being a whore and easy. Let's just say I got my feelings hurt quit a few times when they found out they wasn't true…. When I got back the following summer, I learned that even while I was in Florida, I was the topic of gossip. People started rumors that I got pregnant in 7th and thats why i moved away. I came home and faced even more people calling me a slut, saying bad things about me. Girls pretended to be my friends just to learn things about me then use them against me. That's one of the reasons why I don't talk to a whole lot of people like I used to. I became the slutty easy bitchy whore over night just because one girl didn't like me. I thought about self harm so many times it wasn't funny. I've put my hand through a window, i had "shaving" accidents on my legs and I'm not proud of any of it, but I've learned something. No matter what you do, you will never please everybody. You will never be able to change yourself enough so that everybody will like you. Everybody who makes fun of you see you has a threat. You have something they want or you are something they wish they could be. They find stupid things to make fun of you about just to put you down because if they put you down, your inner light, the thing that makes everybody unique and equally beautiful, doesn't shine. If you feel bad about you, it makes them feel powerful. Don't let people get you down. Rumors will be rumors. Girls will aways start rumors about someone, guys will alway hate that one guy just because they can. Bulling is immature and hurtful. Don't do it. It makes you look pathetic and stupid for making someone feel that bad about themselves. #stopthehate #stopthebullying 

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