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need some advice
@sugarcube.
Sucks to hear about this, I can totally understand you. I've been in a position like this before and I know how hard it can be so the best advice I can give to you is to just really focus on what you want here and what you're really feeling with all of this and just be honest with your family and tell them the truth about how you feel about your relationship with your mother whether it's through a letter (in case you can't find a way to tell them) or saying it directly to them. Of course every family is different so I don't know how they'll take it but I hope it works out for you, good luck!
I'll try my best to keep this brief.
Anyway, these past three years have been hectic due to a fucked up family situation and such, (do not give me pity because I am not looking for any), and because of that my mother and I have no relationship at all. She hates me and I hate her, but around family she does that thing where she pretends to love me and makes herself look good. She's all about image to be completely honest. I swear I'm not trying to sound like that typical teenager who is going through that 'I hate my parents' phase.
Since I'm bluntly honest with her and don't even try to make myself look like I love her back, my family lashes on me and lectures me on how I need to be forgiving for all her past mistakes and I need to let her back into my life. I do not want that, nor need it.
She makes my life miserable, she's like poison and I need to get her out of my life, but that's nearly impossible because I'm forced to go to all these family dinners every week, and she lives with me, and she's obviously there because she's family. How do I tell her and my family that I don't want a relationship with her and I don't want her in my life?
Please help because it's driving me crazy.
7/6/16