Need the Help of My CyberSisters lol

Hey!

So today, my boyfriend decided to drop this huge bomb on me, and ask me to move in with him. I was pretty shocked, seeing as how we've been dating less than a year, I've just gotten over the weird reappearance of my ex, and life is honestly resembling a low budget soap opera.

I told him I'd "think about it", and I will. I don't want us moving in together to affect this relationship (since it doesn't have the strongest foundation yet). And I may be a little put off since I lived with my last boyfriend and he was in it for the sex and my cleaning up his crap, so idk...

Advice?

(And I also discovered this week I have both a gluten and dairy allergy. Fun, right?)

@JustBloo.
I think if you didn't know the answer right off the top of your head, then you're not ready for that kind of step quite yet. It sucks when previous bf's turn out being assholes and totally abuse your trust, so I can see the dilemma.

If the relationship doesn't have string foundation, then moving in will probably prevent a foundation from being formed. I could always be wrong, but that's just what I think about it.

@wanderer
Yeah. That's a good perspective.

I feel bad though. I probably wouldn't be second-guessing it if the last one hadn't happened. And I have no idea how to tell my bf of the current this now :(

@JustBloo.
Just tell him that you're still enjoying your independence :) in saying that - he's probably just wanting consistency and love in both your lives.

what happened with your ex is your ex, forget about him