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I need somewhere to vent . . .
@Rocker_Babe
Okay before I give any advice, are you okay? I'm no doctor but I say put pressure on the wound and call an ambulance right away.
Then, just calm down. The more you think, the more you stress. Just think of first priorities right now. Help yourself, or you can't help anyone else. Just be with your brother for now and then worry about your dad later. Can you call your bank and say that your dad stole the money? Or even report him to the police for theft.
Anyway, just take a hot shower to calm down. Read a book, listen to music or something, just don't do anything really stupid is what I'm trying to say. Because in stressful moments, people do dumb things.
@Rocker_Babe
Put pressure on the wound and like Sugarcube said, call an ambulance and please calm down.
It's exactly what sucarcube said the more you think the worse it will get. Before you can help anyone else, you have to help yourself. Just be there for your brother and call the bank to explain them what your dad is doing and let them block the account so he can't spend it anymore and maybe you can report him for theft as he is stealing your money.
and please stop hurting yourself, it doesn't solve anything and try to calm down with a book, music or a movie/show whatever it is you usually do to calm down.
@sugarcube.
@Liampayneaddict
The problem is, I can't get a good lawyer because it's just honestly hopeless because he's my father...
My hand is fine, but definitely gonna leave a scar... :(
Thank god for friends because or else I'd be dead
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@Rocker_Babe
Daddy dearest or not, Daddy doesn't have the right to your bank account. Personally I'd blow the Hell up on somebody. At the very least go to your bank and get your info changed and see if you can't block certain people from accessing it (ie him).
@Call_Me_Godot
Not trying to sound rude, but don't you think I've already done that?
Thank you for your advice anyway
@Rocker_Babe
I'd flip shit on the bank then too >.> if they're letting it be THAT fucking easy for people to get into your account.
And I don't think you're being rude. You're just stressed .-. It's normal and I'm sorry you're in such a crap spot.
@Rocker_Babe
Why do you need a lawyer to walk into a bank and tell them their system is screwed up and you'll take your business somewhere else?
@Call_Me_Godot
I don't
I've been brought to court for storming in and saying their system sucks
This world these days...
I don't even fucking know why
And as caillou says,
"My world is turning, changing each day!"
Yeah, it's playing on the television in the hospital room rn
Soooo boredddd
@Rocker_Babe
That's a load of shit >.> instead of taking you to court they could've just gotten their shit together.
But that would make sense.
And who needs logic in today's society?
I'm so sorry to hear this. Is your hand okay now? Bleeding is not something you take lightly! You could have severed a major artery! It could have been a catastrophe!
As for your brother, my 21 year old brother was diagnosed with brain tumor a few months back so I can relate. That sort of thing just KILLS you. My brother was not in the same region as me he is in Europe studying so can you imagine he was ALL ALONE when they found out about this and we couldnt do anything until we got there!
My family isnt that great either and I know sometimes you can go through hell because of these things. I'm sorry you're going through this now. But they have the best cures for cancers these days and it's not easy but this time will pass. There will be better days ahead. HUG.
@Kady Hunt
well, i'm fine now
i'm going broke so fast now holy
i have to pay for chemo, for my lunch, for rent....
and possibly a coffin soon ; - ;
he's not getting any better and my mum hasn't stopped by and when my dad did he asked for my new credit card
like wtf dad
@rocker_babe
oh babe, I'm so sorry. :'(
*big hug*
Seriously, your parents...ugh. I can't believe people like this have kids.
I feel like everything has been pushed onto my shoulders.
Lemme introduce you to my family. A typical one these days tbh
Lauren : 27, just married, my sister
Karen : 15, me sister
Chelsea : 11, me sister
Dameon : 22, me brother, diagnosed with lung cancer
Me : 23, feels like shit rn
Dad : somewhere drinking his worries off with expensive champagne or liquor or vodka I swear he will drink anything
Mum : cheat, alcoholic and s*x addict
Welcome into my messed up world
Yesterday, my sister left for her honeymoon after the wedding, and I get a call from the my local doctor saying Dameon was diagnosed with cancer and I'm just panicking and trying to make sense of it all still.
I call my dad multiple times and he doesn't pickup.
Today i found out he was spending everything in my bank account on beer and whoknowswhat
Now I'm broke, panicked, worn out, upset,
Basically a mental mess
I don't even know how he got in my bank account!?
Oh and to top it off, I stabbed myself with a butterknife so. . .
anyone know now how to stop bleeding?
1/27/16