Help?

Okay so, I have 2 guy best friends (T and J). I haven't seen them in person for 2 years after 7th grade because they went to another middle school (Now at High School) and I'm now homeschool. We kept in touch online. I started to have a crush on J. We texted each other A LOT and he then admitted he likes me and blah blah, we started dating online. One day, T, J, and I were in a group chat and T suggest we should all meet up this Saturday at a park on noon. J and I said sure but T said he will be a hour late so J and I can be alone together in person. T pm me saying I better kiss J when we meet. Keep in mind, J is my very first bf so I never had my first kiss. I am nervous to meet him in person. I don't know what to do when I first see him or what to talk about or should I kiss him or not. I need some tips and Advice

@XxBMOxX
The way I see it, T's not dating you or J so anything that happens between you and J is on your terms, not T's :P take it as a joke and just let whatever happens, happen

@Call_Me_Godot

I am dating J. He asked me out. T is just our best friend.

@XxBMOxX
Then like I said, just take T's comment as a joke since his opinion on your relationship doesn't really matter :P As long as you're happy with J and moving at a pace you're alright with, then keep doing you :)

(Obviously you can still go to T for advice, I mean that matters but like I tell my friend, just because I give my opinion on the dudes she talks to doesn't mean my statement has to mean anything to her)