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Advice? (Boy trouble :/)
@goalexis1dfan
For one thing, everyone is replaceable.
Second don't talk to him. If you weren't good enough to find out the truth from him then he's not good enough for you to waste your time on.
Third, a very simple lesson about love- use them before they use you. Don't let yourself become a side hoe. Make him your side hoe.
Friendly reminder that love is a chemical reaction that forms in the part of the brain that doesn't fully develop until your late 20s! So if you're not there yet, don't worry. You didn't actually like him :D
Delete him from everything. All the pictures. All the snapchats. All the texts. His number. Everything. Then you won't have to be reminded of him and it's easier to move on :) and when he hits you up you can be all like "who the fuck is this?" And he'll get the message ;P
Okay to start off with..I met this guy online bout a year ago now. We talked on kik as friends for a while, but he stopped talking to me for 2 months or 3. Till one night he message me a pic of him crying and said he needs a friend. He was having problems with his ex, N, whom "he was in love with". I was there for him, I even helped him with his other problems for a few months. He then started telling me he starting to have a crush on me. I was the type of girl who doesn't date or trys not to like someone cux I thought "love" is stupid and doesn't last (Based on Seeing what my peers goes thru in there relationships and my parents divorce). Later we talked as best friends and I started liking him. He was just so different from the other guys where im from and he is very sensitive, nerdy, artistic, and unique. I knew almost everything about him. We exchanged our phone numbers and talked on the phone all the time. Things got serious, so I started telling my mom all about him. My mom didn't like the fact I met him online but was very supportive and told me she is taking me to go see him in person nxt summer! C (the guy) got really excited when I told him on the phone. Later, he told his mom about us. She wasn't very happy but she said its fine that we can just be friends. He was sad and so was I, so that point forward we tried talking as friends but it just got weird. My feelings for him started fading away but I was still excited to see him in person. We stopped talking for a while, but he started talking to me again saying he doesn't want to lose me, he still has feelings for me, and misses how we used to be so close. I told him I miss him too but we just got distant. We talked for a few times but not like we used to. I woke up one night around 2am from a nightmare about him being suicidal. I texted him right away if hes okay and told him my dream, but he didn't say much about it. My dream got me really attach to him now. A week before Halloween he texted me saying he is thinking about me. That was the last time we message each other. Till bout 2 weeks ago I decided to message him on kik to surprise him. But I saw that his username says "J's boyfriend" with a heart. I got pretty piss off and sad. But I didn't message him. To this day I cant stop thinking about that. And I started think that I must have fell for him really bad to feel really hurt. And that pisses me off. Im mad at myself for felling for a guy that I told myself I will never do. I want some advice. I would ask my mom and friends for advice but I told them wats up and told them and acted idc anymore but I do. plz help! I never felt like this is and it scares me.
11/19/15