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That's horrible. I can't believe girls are doing such a thing! I totally agree with you. No one should be harming themselves over his departure. At least there still is One Direction. We have to stay positive with the situation, not negative.
Seriously. The group itself is still together and I haven't heard anything about the rest of them leaving so really everyone should just be okay with it. It sucks, sure, but I see no reason why the fans shouldn't support them rather than mutilating themselves in some morbid attempt to force Zayn back >.> if he does come back because of that (though I find that unlikely), it would be obvious he's only there for the fans and not himself which easily leads to poor quality work and even more strain.
Part of me wants to face palm right now; the other half is uber concerned because these girls probably have no idea how much damage their doing to themselves and those around them. Self harm isn't a joke or something to be taken lightly. I lost my sister to depression via selfhalf and it's something no one should have to deal with. I'm going to end here before I rant on further.
So, mindlessly scrolling through 9gag (because I'm too sweggy for Twitter, lulz) this morning when I saw that apparently girls were cutting themselves over Zayn leaving? I hate to beat a dead horse and keep talking about his departure but seriously? Slicing yourself open is NOT how you convince someone to come back. That throws more stress on them and a bad rep on the fan base.
I don't wanna sound insensitive because cutting and self harm is a really serious thing but for the love of whatever higher power you think exists, if you find someone who does that, (POLITELY) explain to them that it's not worth it. We don't know if the decision is set in stone. What're you giong to tell your kids 20 years from now? Self harm is just going to make Zayn feel even worse than he probably already does. In no way, shape, or form will that help solve anything.
3/28/15