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Boy Trouble( I need advice from you girls)
@Miss Direction
Well first off he is being a gentlemen and not playing with your emotions honestly you should let him figure out what he wants. Don't like turn the feelings you have for him off just let him have time to see if he wants this other girl or if he wants you because sometimes guys have a hard time figuring out what they want but if you give him time i am sure he'd see that he really wants you so hang in there and just keep your feelings for him there just show him that your paticne and willing to wait until he's ready that truthfully is what a guy loves more than anything is when a girl has patience and not pushing him but i'm sure he'll pick you i'm so happy for you :)
Just lay back and see how it plays out and if that isn't to your liking then tell him that you would rather him be with you than that other chick or forget him and find someone else and if I'm not helping um I'm sorry but either way I hope you chose what is best for
@Miss Direction
I wouldn't bother with a pursue. He seems a little out of line and definitely playing with fire. I'm assuming you're pretty young and have life ahead of you? Find someone worth your time.
@Miss Direction
Ah! Now this is an exciting story. no seriously.. it would be cool if it became the basis of a fanfiction.. anyways off topic... I think he's actually being quite a sweetheart. He obviously likes you but he's unsure as he also feels that he likes another girl too. He probably would've jumped at the idea of going out with you, but he's afraid that he's going to hurt you as he is still confused about himself as well. I think it's best if you give him time to figure himself out. He will eventually figure it out and when he does.. I hope it works with you. But, this doesn't mean you have to stop talking to him or try to forget him. Just continue being a friend and know that even if he does choose the other girl, you can still be friends. And who knows.. maybe you'll find that these feelings you have for him will diminish overtime... maybe a friend is all he'll ever be and that's okay! Cheer up girl and enjoy life while you can! :)
All the love <3 and gud luck! I hope you two get together XD!
@love-babe
@Corrina Tomlinson
@I'm a Mummy
thanks for the advice, I'm reading this out loud and my friend said I told that myself ,and sometimes I do feel impatient and then I convince myself to have more patience.
I don't make a big deal about it when my friends tease him and they say " give ur girlfriend a hug first" and we hugged earlier that day and he says," I did hug her already" without.correcting them, that gives me hope.
So you guys are the best listeners and as a member of the Directioner family, I need advice from you girls.( BTW, be prepared for a long story)
My friends and I hung out like we usually by the train station where we drop off one of the group members.Then, a group of girls I knew along with a boy I disliked when I first met him because I thought he was immature I was always kinda rude to him because he started a small rumor with about that my first friend in my first year at my school raped him but we just beat him up because he called us crazy and weirdos and that made him immature at times , which he was at the time but puberty hit him and he had a deeper voice not too deep though and became mature. He give hugs all the time to everybody who usually hugs people because my friend gave him the idea to because he needs to be more friendly. Anyway he gives me a hug like normal and then all of a sudden my heart skips and I was confused. I told my friends and they had teased me at first then asked me what I was gonna do about it.
I said I would see what my heart really meant and spent time with him getting to know him better for 2 days.
I was able to get my answer, I liked him but I didn't even notice him like that, just as a friend until my heart told me something I never even knew was possible. So some how it got to him I liked him and he asked
if it was true. I said maybe I wasn't sure because he had just told me that
he loved this girl he's once dated and though they broke up he still loved her. I'll let you imagine how I felt, however he still bugged me for the answer, if I liked him...during that time he waited he acted even more of a gentlemen to me then he already became after puberty.
I told him finally, I did like him and he was satisfied that I gave him an answer. When it was cold and I told him of my thin jacket he let me use his jacket and opened doors for me.
As he did this my feelings for him grew, but one thing stopped it from blossoming was if he returned my feelings. My friends being the protective girls they are captured him and pulled him away to get answers( my sister and friends said we looked so cute together and tried taking pictures of us). That came back saying that he did like me but he likes another girl as well he's liked for along time(which got my sis upset at him). I wasn't surprised though he had told me, so he continued being sweet and the girls asked if he was going to ask me out. He said maybe, and he doesn't know until he finally told me he wants to date me but he likes someone else and didn't want to be a boyfriend that plays with my emotions and asks if we could be friends.
What would you say to that besides " yeah, of course " and I gave him a thumbs up. However,I was disappointed and happy that he was thoughtful. The next couple of weeks I was trying to get over him and that was hard
since he had kept staring at me, I looked at him too.
It went on forever and my heart went crazy when I learned new stuff about him and he started to give me passionate hugs (such as: tight long hugs,embraces and then being picked up, and more of the tight warm embraces.)
Should I pursue or not?
2/8/15